I think being a "motivational speaker" is a bullshit job. So I'm not surprised that a motivational speaker would not take her own advice when faced with a real challenge.
Apodaca has gone negative in her campaign against Judge Escobar (which I think all candidates should do for my entertainment). It's not such a big deal save for her own words on being nice to other women.
THIS is embarrasing.
She's either a liar or doesn't care much for her own advice. You choose.